Intelligence is a crucial factor for humans as it will help us a lot in the process of development.
Something that can be a little more important than that is regarding our emotions!
People that are highly emotionally intelligent tend to have some pretty interesting habits. In my opinion we should all practice these.
First of all highly emotionally people focus on the positive. Remember that story of the glass, half empty or half full? Well, every story has a positive side. Just ask yourself: What is positive about this situation I am living in right now? Or what positive things happened today? Or how positive was my spouse's day?
You can play with all this positiveness and actually have a conversation about it. And yes, by having a conversation with someone about positive things you will affect your surroundings with positive ideas and feelings. You'll be happier! Think about it.
Next, highly emotionally people surround themselves with positive people. It is the law of attraction. You become positive, you look for positive people, positive people start popping up. Tell me who you walk with and I will tell you who you are. I think it is something like that.
After that, of course, highly emotionally people are able to set boundaries and be assertive when necessary. Now, let's consider this topic a little bit and think how we can put this into practice so that we can have a clear picture of these words.
You know that time when you were overworking and doing more things that your could possibly (humanly) do and your boss ask you to take over another important project for him. Now, highly emotionally people will know how to say no in these cases. And you? Can you think of another situation that illustrates this point? Write on the comments below please.
Highly emotional people are focused on the future and are quick to let go of the past. They actually like and enjoy living in the present. Which reminds me of leaving a special quote from Donald Trump with you dear readers:
I try to learn from the past, but I plan for the future by focusing exclusively on the present. That's where the fun is.
So, remember to make your life more fun, happy and interesting.
And please share your ideas on the comments about what you are doing that is highly emotionally intelligent.
Thanks and until next time!
Have a blessed day!

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